Tulsa Mediation Lawyers

Representing You through the Divorce Mediation Process

The mediation of your divorce is a typical court requirement in Tulsa. The process allows spouses to negotiate the settlement of all divorce issues, such as child custody and visitation, child support, alimony, and the equitable division of marital property. The mediation process takes these issues out of the courtroom where tension, suspicion, and hostility may reign and puts them into a private setting where the parties may come to terms in a calmer, less intimidating setting.

At Hensley and Associates, PLLC, we have found mediation to be the better way when it comes to settling divorce-related disputes. Our firm has helped numerous couples reach amicable arrangements using proven mediation methods. Our Tulsa mediation attorneys have the experience and skills needed to help finalize your divorce peacefully.

How Does Mediation Work?

Mediation relieves partners from hashing out their differences in a public forum that can seem threatening. The mediation process promotes a more cooperative exchange between parties. It gives spouses the power and control to reach their own decisions as to what they feel is best for their families.

The first requirement in mediation is for the parties to identify the issues that need to be resolved. As a neutral third party, the mediator’s purpose is to promote conversation between the parties so that issues can be discussed rationally and resolved. In some instances, the meetings may involve having the parties seated in separate rooms so as to avoid any discomfort in confronting the other. Throughout the process, the mediator may consult with each spouse until, through communication and problem-solving, an agreement can be reached.

With this in mind, it makes sense that mediation is:

• Less time-consuming than a courtroom procedure
• More affordable
• Less prone to emotional trauma or disturbance
• More efficient

If negotiations between the two parties fail, only then will the case need to be taken up in the courtroom where a judge will make decisions on the evidence presented by both sides.

If you and your spouse wish to settle your divorce through mediation, Hensley and Associates, PLLC provides the services you need.

What Happens After Divorce Mediation?

After divorce mediation, the process may continue or conclude, depending on the outcome. If mediation is successful, and both parties reach a mutually agreeable resolution, the next step involves drafting a formal settlement agreement. This agreement outlines the terms decided upon during mediation, including asset division, child custody arrangements, spousal support, and other relevant matters. Both parties will review the agreement, often with their respective attorneys, to ensure that all aspects are clearly understood and accurately reflected.

Once the settlement agreement is finalized and signed by both parties, it is submitted to the court for approval. The court will review the document to confirm that it complies with legal standards and that the terms are fair and equitable. Assuming the court finds the agreement satisfactory, it will be incorporated into the final divorce decree, legally binding both parties to its terms.

However, if mediation does not result in a full agreement, the unresolved issues may need to be addressed through additional negotiations or litigation. In this case, the contested matters will be presented before a judge in court, who will make the final decisions. It’s important to note that even partial agreements reached during mediation can simplify and shorten the litigation process.

In either scenario, whether mediation results in a full settlement or requires further legal action, having an experienced Tulsa meditation attorney is crucial. We are here to guide you through the post-mediation process, ensuring your rights and interests are protected as you move towards the finalization of your divorce. Mediation can be a valuable tool in resolving disputes, but understanding what comes next is essential for achieving a fair and lasting outcome.